And life without both joy AND sadness is a life without balance. And I think it’s high time to march all of that loneliness and self doubt and fear into the light and stop hiding it away and acting like it doesn’t exist because to admit that it DOES exist is to admit vulnerability. And to go a step further…all of my great big ugly fears about what being single at age 36 says about me.
I want to be that woman, but I’m not that woman yet. And that journey starts with this blog…with this moment of honesty that will hopefully be followed by lots more moments of honesty as I stop frantically searching for the silver lining of every situation and instead just learn to embrace the ugliness, the doubt, the uncertainty, the fear…as all a part of the journey. I personally think it’s a lot braver to talk about our doubts and fears instead of acting like everything’s perfect. It lends itself to loneliness and self doubt and fear.
And let me say at the outset that, if you feel you are in an abusive relationship based on the definition I just gave, seek help immediately. Develop the skill of being a good listener, which is one of the hardest skills to develop. " Always make sure you've fully understood what the other person has said.
I'm happy living in this senior housing complex and i LOVE this town!! i am also seeking for the same in a man, well, do u have access to yahoo or any email address so we could talk more and more to know eachother better.. Nice profile well why not check out my profile and let see if things can work out between us...i believe it will work out if only you can give me the chance to make you happy at all time hope to hear from you soonyeah there are serious men in this site.i will love to know you you have a talk on yahoo instant messanger ok this [email protected] me and then we can start talking okay I think the younger ones on this site are looking for older rich men or woman to scam..
easy prey they think,,single and looking for love ,, some older guy is going to fall for this .
To you ALL...i wish you a good day and better tomorrows.
Judy Wow, i just noticed not one response, including mine, was ON TOPIC! ON TOPIC: Sorry, i don't know anything about retirement communities.
i am Hi, I have just turned 50, and I am embracing the maturity that comes along with it. I enjoy music, dancing and having drinks at a nice bar/club. I enjoy people who love to laugh and who can make me laugh. I eat fresh healthy food, havent touched take 40 year old dyke, lookinh to expsnd her friend group!!