How you don’t have to fit a certain profile – you don’t have to be a male model, you don’t have to change your personalty…. I know you’re excited to find what you should be saying on Tinder, so let’s get into it…Tinder is a crowded jungle.
When you (try to) start a conversation with a girl, chances are she’s already talking with a few guys and has a handful (or more) of other guys that are message to her to try and start a conversation, it’s no wonder she doesn’t respond…
: Although not a mistake per se, but more of a conditioning, the average guy gets paralyzed at the thought of getting verbally dirty with women [sexually]. Sparing you the drawn-out proceedings, I’ll get straight into the heart of the matter!
Not that this is inherently a bad idea, but you have to be socially aware enough as to when you can go verbally sexual and when you shouldn’t.
: Another common mistake when it comes to talking dirty is to jump right into it without warming the girl up first.
It’s not even in the heat of sexting, it’s almost a conversation starter for some guys, like a coffee table book; a horrible, flaccid coffee table book.
Here’s what NOT to do: If you must send a picture, keep it from the waist up unless specifically asked.
Boy: Will it make you feel better if I send you my picture?