Tour can be a lonely, isolating stretch of 3-hour-a-night sleeps, tension over a bandmate's attitude problem (or drinking problem), and general emotional exhaustion.--Deenie Hartzog, Bourbonand Support Feminist Media! During these troubling political times, independent feminist media is more vital than ever.Being around that, and their new gf (or whatever), made me really think about having to let it go.
As Penny Lane in Almost Famous says “I always tell the girls, never take it seriously, if ya never take it seriously, ya never get hurt.
There’s something about being passionate and really caring that’s attractive. As one boy whose band name this statement may or may not have been derived from, said, “We are love after all.” I went to a few shows in which I had to be in the presence of a once ‘lover’, lost.
They ran in the same circles for years before meeting, even dating the same man (a guitar player) early on.
Hyatt, a singer and songwriter, saw a string of “freaks and losers” in a seemingly neverending stream of dead-end relationships before meeting her husband, Michael, while Lecaro, a music journalist, had a long, on-again-off-again relationship with her post-high school sweetheart, which eventually led to marriage and a daughter before things imploded after 13 years.
While I am supportive of him and his career, there is no denying how NOT frugal it is to be a musician. The upright bass alone is several thousand dollars.