"The pinnacle is being really well known and winning awards, and I was like, 'I don't really care about that' — what I really cared about was making a difference in peoples' lives.
The industry attracted a lot of less-than-stellar characters and the reputation of a dating coach was quickly tarnished.
Now when people hear the phrase “dating coach” they instantly think “sleazy car salesman”.
Still I’ve got guys asking me how to be a dating coach. It’s a tough, demanding job that requires good work ethic. On the rare occasions that I do, I get reactions like this:“Oh…so you’re like a pimp? ”“Pick me up.”“That’s weird.”“Are you doing it right now? EBooks and blogs will help you to market your service. Dating coaches are charmers; so basically, you learn to run game on eager consumers.
It doesn’t bring you much status, especially not with women or the straighter members of society. Soon, like myself, your superb writing skills will endow you with legions of rabid fans. Develop your seminars into a one man comedy act for men, or go full Tony Robbins. Then you can tour the world with your seduction show. With those three skills you will be able to run your business.
She then moved to San Francisco, and in 2014 she decided she would branch out and start her own company, Introverted Alpha, which helps "smart, introverted men become benevolent badasses and attract women naturally." "When I was working with [Adam], I found that linear, logical men were my very favorite to coach," she says.