not trying to acquire a relationship or boyfriend as if they were trying to acquire a new handbag or pair of heels.
If you want a great relationship, then focus on having a great relationship.
I do not want him seeing others while we are dating, but feel such a conversation might run him off. Not really sure what to do at this point, but when is it too soon to ask if he is dating others…and how can I handle the answer I might already know?
Hes still dating other people
Until then, it’s all speculation, hope, fantasy, desire, wishful thinking, and potential. What I’m writing about is what you make all of this dating stuff MEAN. remember the phone session we had last month where we were looking at one of the guys who had written to me on Match.
See, you’re identifying each man as the problem here. After all, if 50% of all guys are going to disappoint, then this behavior is utterly predictable. But then after exchanging several emails and a few phone conversations, he told me he was dating someone else and that he would call if things didn’t work out, and I was a bit upset by that. She doesn’t assume that they’re “together” because they kissed.
I met this guy on a night out with friends and we’ve been texting pretty much all day every day for a month.
He often texts me first and we seem to really get along well and like him a lot.
At a minimum, it is a waste of your time, as more likely than not, non-exclusive relationships peter out. It is rude and disrespectful to be subject to such behavior. Dating someone while they’re dating other people is the same thing.