at a bar, party, during the day, etc) you can send her any one of these type of texts: Sending her a text like that ensures that she has your number and knows that you’re interested.
If you were successful in making her feel a lot of attraction for you when you first met her, it’s important that she also knows that you are interested in her and aren’t just getting her number for fun.
If you hide behind texts and are too afraid to get on a phone call, a woman can easily lose interest and decide to hook up with another guy who has the confidence to call her up and arrange to see her in person.
Yet having the vocabulary for sex doesn’t always translate so seamlessly into comfortable conversations.
Especially when it’s about what we want from, and even during, sex. The willingness to talk about the kind of sex we have or want to have is a key skill.
Many guys get phone numbers from women and never follow up on them or arrange a date.
As a result, many women feel like a guy isn’t a real dating option until she has actually met up with him for a first date, kissed him (or had sex with him) and wanted more.
Congratulations — by seeking help, you've already demonstrated more self-awareness than the vast majority of online flirts.