Which means you now have more time to improve yourself and explore your options. Honestly, if you constantly feel like someone is not treating you with respect, check your price tag. If you don’t value and respect yourself, wholeheartedly, no one else will either. All too often we let the rejections of our past dictate every move we make thereafter.
Perhaps you’ve subconsciously marked yourself down. Because it’s YOU who tells others what you’re worth by showing them what you’re willing to accept for your time and attention. We literally do not know ourselves to be any better than what some intolerant person or shallow circumstance once told us was true.
I’m going to do my best to summarize– and explain what you can learn from it. 1) Men have a very fair assessment of women’s overall attractiveness.
This doesn’t mean that they’re not shallow (they are), but rather, that they are consistent and reasonable in terms of “rating” women’s looks.
My mom hated seafood so we would often go get fish together and make fun of people at work, school, etc. I always made sure everyone felt welcome and included.
My dad is tremendously funny and a phenomenal story teller. I wore the same pair of vans tennis shoes to school for 5 years straight, had long un-brushed hair, and wore oversized sweatshirts and jean shorts to school. Because I wasn’t popular and because I was picky, I didn’t go on a single date until I was almost 20 years old. I thought it best to not deal with this all in real time in hopes that my Dad would come to his senses.
Literally 2/3 of male messages go to the best looking 1/3 of women.