Sometimes, they guy would be cheating on them with some random girl that he met at work or at a bar, while at other times it would be someone the girl knew fairly well or it was even her friend.
And of course I totally get that men can't understand what it's like to be on the receiving end of sexual objectification, as women are.
Even so there is a double standard at work in both directions.
You probably and intuitively understand what I mean when I say that male sexuality has been demonized in recent years.
For example, men are often condemned for using commercial sex services such as porn, prostitution, lap dancing and so forth where the images of the men involved are presented as some kind of uncontrollable beast with as little control over their urges as a rutting stag.
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