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Over the last few years I've received hundreds of emails from women dating widowers.
From them I’ve noticed some patterns of behavior that indicate the widower isn’t ready for a serious relationship and just using the woman to temporarily fill the void created by the death of his late wife.
It’s better to know what to look for and bail out early then waste years of your life with a widower who’s not ready to make you the center of his universe.
It’s not easy for a widower to let friends and family know there’s a new woman in his life – especially when many of them are still grieving over the late wife’s passing.
A lot of times, prematurely entering relationships leads us to bring unresolved problems from previous relationships.