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At that point, I asked him to send me a selfie with a current news paper headline in the photo. I do not know his real name, but every email I get, I asked to skype or for their phone number or them coming to me, I never hear again. He claimed to be half Swiss and half English, a civil engineer, reside in NY (where I live), that he won a contract for a project in Cape Town, S. I demanded he give me his full name (not that he gave me his real name) and then I told him I was onto him and will take him down. I couldn't reach him after that by phone or text, so I emailed him with the same sentiments I expressed on the phone. I subsequently filed two complaints with Chemistry.com, and a report with the FBI, FCC, and the FTC about my incident.
Of course, that was the last time I heard from him. He knows my type and uses that to send emails from professional men that I would answer. Africa where he traveled to, and then was a victim of a carjacking/robbery at gunpoint when his Mac Book Pro laptop and i Phone 6 were stolen. And this guy chose to use the same "story" he and his fellow scammers have used to coerce a single, middle-aged woman to go out to the "nearest Best Buy or Apple Store" to buy and then send him a replacement Mac Book Pro and i Phone without even meeting me yet?! Fortunately, the only personal information this scammer got out of me were a few pics of me, my email address, and my phone number.
He said he was Dutch and an oil drilling consultant. She quickly offered to refund me the last 2 6 month charges and while I wanted to fight this I also wanted to just get this taken care of.
His mom was Dutch, his father American but he died when "Van" was 3. He was trying for a fourth loan when he disappeared on a month long work trip. Now I was probably being described as one of his stalkers like the many women who were calling when I thought things were going OK. She did confirm that they could see that I had NOT used the service since May of 2014...
It was obvious it was scripted and he didn't respond to my questions fully. I joined this site in January, and I have had 7 emails from 7 people, which were bogus. I joined about a month ago and paid $85 for a six-month subscription.