So, I just came across this thread on AVEN where someone listed a bunch of potential dating/friend-finding sites that Aces could find useful.I’m posting the list here for all of you who may want to check them out.
It's not something I want to do—but at this point, I don't see any other options. Consequently, AAA, people tend to write me when sex (needing it, wanting it, getting it but not the kind you want, etc) is the problem, and sex (in some new and improved form) is often-but-not-always the solution.
I also get and respond to questions from asexuals, and I've urged sexuals not to regard asexuals as defective—or, for that matter, to view committed-but-sexless relationships as defective.
Keep in mind that I have not road-tested all of these yet.
Asexuality is just now coming onto the horizon as an identity.
Everyone wants it or needs it, we should fuck before dinner, or we can spice up our sex life in this certain way to be happy.