You may need to run some sort of background check or something to know what kind of temperament the guy has.
A suave, zen-like guy who can hold in his inner lion is great but if you have a temper tantrum throwing lunatic around your baby, you need to drop him like a bad habit.
He's not just looking for a girlfriend, he's looking for a there's more to motherhood when mothering HIS kids: You must win them over; your own kids love you from the start. When I dated a man with kids, I heard, "My mom doesn't do my braid like that" and, "Don't tell me what to do!
" In their eyes you just aren't Still willing to go at this relationship like a champ? Saturday nights are for couples unless your man has his son every other weekend.
When your boo has children there are schedules, babysitters, school emergencies, and worst of all ... I've dated a man with kids twice and each time the ex stirred the relationship pot.